22 November 2006

钱!钱!钱!之 上帝和金钱



我们的信仰如何回应和面对经济的生产、交易、消费和分配,财富的赚取/分配.。譬如,基督徒投入经济活動的基本意义是什么?我们当如何看待牟利的行为?对金钱或对財富的使用,如何建立正确的财富观?,何為分配的正義?又當如何實現?这些挑战我们如何回应?

首先我们要从经济伦理的角度来看历史或一些圣经学者如何從倫理层次提出信仰如何因应经济课题的三种回应。

三种回应
第一种回应:鄙視并予拒斥第一种回应是基于信仰的理由面对财富和经济抱持鄙视并给予拒斥的态度。

第二种回应:肯定但卻疏离第二种回应是對财富和经济抱以某种理由的肯定,卻又基於信仰上的若干顾虑而予以限制和疏离。

第三种回应:面对而后改造
第三條回应是既不藐視财富和经济,也认为财富可以累积和享受。它不担忧基督徒的资产和事业龐大,甚至,还視此为上帝的奖赏和祝福。這种回应真正肯定财富、甚至商品经济,並完全消解与信仰之间紧张性的态度。

对于财富与经济,約翰衛斯理(John Wesley)曾經有一段名言,就是:
盡你所能的賺取、盡你所能的節省、也盡你所能的給予(gain all you can, save all you can, and give all you can.)。

为了让我们更加明白神的吩咐,我们来看圣经的金钱观并神怎样用金钱来加强我们与他的关系。要记得,金钱有它的光明面及黑暗面:它只是一个“交易的媒介” (medium of exchange)。只有当金钱被滥用或不正确的使用时,才会产生问题。


上帝如何及为何使用金钱

1. 为了让我们更加明白神的吩咐,我们来看圣经的金钱观并神怎样用金钱来加强我们与他的关系。要记得,金钱有它的光明面及黑暗面:它只是一个“交易的媒介” (medium of exchange)。只有当金钱被滥用或不正确的使用时,才会产生问题。

因为神是美好的,他透过不同的方式使用金钱来使我们得益处:

1. 神用金钱来加强我们对他的信心。

只有当我们完全信靠他,并知道我们只是财物的管家,神才能透过金钱的祝福彰显他的主权。 太6:32-33-- 這 都 是 外 邦 人 所 求 的 . 你 們需 用 的 這 一 切 東 西 、 你 們 的 天 父 是 知 道 的 。 你 們 要 先 求 他 的 國 、 和 他 的 義 這 些 東 西 都 要 加 給你 們 了 。

2. 神透过钱财来陶造发展我们的忠心。

因为我们的生命是不断的环绕在赚取、使用、消费和储存金钱上。如果我们能在小事上(小钱)忠心,他会托付更大的祝福和责任于我们。

路16:11--人 在 最 小 的 事 上 忠 心 、 在 大 事 上 也 忠 心 . 在 最 小 的 事 上 不 義 、 在 大 事 上 也 不 義 。
倘 若 你 們 在 不 義 的 錢 財 上 不 忠 心 、 誰 還 把 那 真 實 的 錢 財 託 付 你 們 呢 。

3. 神使用金钱来证明他的爱。

马太7:11告诉我们神会将我们所需要的东西给相信他的人。当我们把他所托付给我们的金钱奉献回他时,他能使用这些金钱来供应给我(他)们日用的饮食。
马太7:11-- 你 們 雖 然 不 好 、 尚 且 知 道 拿 好 東 西 給 兒 女 、 何 況 你 們 在 天 上的 父 、 豈 不 更 把 好 東 西 給 求 他 的 人 麼 。

4. 神使用金钱彰显他的信实。

摩西提醒以色列只有上帝会赐给他们创造财富的能力。我们的保障在神那里,不是在银行户口里。透过财务上的需要来明白神的信实可以帮助我们更依靠他。
“万物都从神而来“

5. 神透过金钱的祝福来使信徒们合一。

神会使用一个富足的基督徒来去祝福另一个有需要的人。我们生命中的盈余是神要用来祝福那些有需要的弟兄姐妹。

6. 神使用金钱来指示方向。

神会用生命中的富足和缺乏来指引我们前面的旅途。我们时常以为神只透过富足来指引我们的方向,但是神也透过不给我们来祝福我们。

7. 神使用金钱来帮助我们操练节制。

节制是其中一粒圣灵的果子,而且是成功的金钱管理最重要的一个品格。

8. 神使用金钱来分辨属灵的成熟度。

透过我们对财务的优先次序及金钱的管理,我们可以发掘个人的品格及属灵的成熟度。


神不会用金钱来


1. 使我们忧虑。

如果基督徒为了钱忧虑,担心,烦扰,神的主权并没有被尊崇。。神说没有忧虑的财富是他的计划。他告诉我们不用忧虑。
太6:25--所 以 我 告 訴 你 們 、 不 要 為 生命 憂 慮 、 喫 甚 麼 、 喝 甚 麼 . 為 身 體 憂 慮 穿 甚 麼 . 生 命 不 勝 於 飲 食 麼 、 身 體 不 勝 於 衣 裳 麼 。

2. 使我们败坏。

很多基督徒落入恶者的网罗里而败坏了。那些生命里充满贪婪,自大,诈欺,虚伪,奸诈等是与神及他的计划为敌的。

3. 神从不用金钱来建立名利。

财富会使我们产生财务上的优越感和自负。但是,在基督里我们都是平等的,以为这世界和其中所有的都将成为过去。


4. 神从不允许金钱来满足我们个人的欲望。

神不会让他的子民贫穷,但也不允许过度的浪费。多余的财富是要用来帮助有需要的人,如果被浪费掉,多余的会被挪去。

因此,我们必须摧毁对金钱的恐惧。论到基督徒对钱财的态度,你必须分辨哪些是出自神的话,哪些是出于人的传统观念。这点极为重要。有许多传统的观念偷偷的潜入神的教会中,抢夺了神子民的经费,使他们受到财务的捆绑。教会一旦无法看见这一点,就很容易成为魔鬼在这末世的猎物。这就是我们谈论财富自由的目的;并不是要叫我们如何一夜致富的技巧。盼望你能接受财富兴旺的信息。它所谈论的,并不是以你的人为中心,而是要你成为神祝福给众人的管道。

19 November 2006

和他作朋友

(A sermon shared in MCMC on 19 Nov 2006)

約 翰 福 音 4:1-42

经文背景

耶稣已经在犹太一段时间。在耶路撒冷,他参加了逾越节(2:13)、洁净圣殿(2:14-22)并且和尼哥底母交谈(3:1-21)。在犹太地区,耶稣和门徒在那里居住施洗(3:22)。2:23节总结耶稣在离开犹太到加利利之前的事工。

所以4:1-3这样记载法利赛人开始认为耶稣的事工带给他们的威胁比施洗约翰更大的时候,耶稣也知道了法利赛人的反应,他就离开犹太,到加利利去。










当时从犹太到加利利的旅程有两条。第一就是经过撒玛利亚,需要三天的旅程。通常,犹太教徒都会避开这条路,因为他们不想和撒玛利亚人有任何的接触和来往,以免变成不洁净。第二条路线就是避开撒玛利亚,从犹太往东走到约旦,经过约旦到加利利去,这样大概需要两倍的时间。但却是无所有自以为圣洁的犹太教徒的第一选择。但4:4节告诉我们,耶稣却选择第一条路线,到撒玛利亚去。耶稣这个革命性的举动给门徒带来挑战。也给我们带来挑战。弟兄姐妹们,耶稣没有像犹太人那样避开这些在当时社会所谓的不洁净的人,他也不怕他们。他要我们学像他,就好像他要他的门徒学他一样,在4:5和8,31,到撒玛利亚的城里买食物。弟兄姐妹们,在我们继续看下去的时候,我要你思想耶稣给我们的榜样:谁是你生活中的撒玛利亚人呢?你会避开他们呢?还是和他们做朋友呢?

弟兄姐妹,再过不久我们就要迎接圣诞布道会以及新一年的挑战。这段经文记载了耶稣开始传福音的最基本方式。我们来看耶稣如何向这个撒玛利亚妇人传福音,来从中学习一些的提醒。

1. 撒玛利亚人:在犹太人眼中为“杂种”(犹太+亚述人),就是在血统上和宗教信仰上被外邦人污染、不洁净的人。但是耶稣没有避开这些所谓不洁净的撒玛利亚人,他进入他们的世界。Jesus stepped into their world. (5)



2. She was a Women:在当时,男人是不能和尼人公开交谈的,这样会使他成为不洁净。(7节)。但是耶稣和他谈话,还向他讨水喝。没有任何“歧视”。



3. 耶稣“坐下来”:和他们交通/团契。(6)除此之外,她是被自己人所不接纳的妇人,选择中午12点来打水,要避开其他的人/特别是其他的妇人。但耶稣伸出手来接触她,并且接纳她,耶稣没有向她讲道理。Not religious but relational没有宗教性的,而是以建立友谊关系的方式来和她作朋友。



4. 耶稣听见及看见她的需要(10),就提供她“活水”(13-15)。



5. 耶稣纠正并挑战她的错误观念和信仰:10-14。当时的撒玛利亚人认为雅各井所提供的水是最好的(12),而且这妇人认为耶稣没有工具,井又深(75-100尺)。这里我们看到耶稣和她一来一往的辩论有关“活水”的问题。“活水”对犹太人来说是指“流动的水”而不是“静止不动”的水。所以妇人才会站在井水边问耶稣去那里拿活水。其实是她还没有完全明白耶稣所指的“活水”是指永远的生命。一直到第15节她才明白并且准备好接受福音,虽然她还需要更多的教导。但她开始开放的时候,耶稣就进入下一个阶段,也就是第二道命令。(第一道在第7节)


6. 当撒玛利亚妇人表达了她对“活水”的渴望时,耶稣说:(16)你 去 叫 你 丈 夫 也 到 这 里 来。耶稣当然知道他没有一个正式的丈夫,但是耶稣的命令对这个妇人的属灵旅程很重要—就是她需要自己承认自己的过去是不对的,是罪。所以当耶稣命令她去的时候,她的回答是诚实的。耶稣就才告诉他有关她的过去,就是17-18节:她是一个曾经有五个丈夫的妇人,而现在和他在一起的不是他的丈夫。(18)


7. 19节:妇人就对耶稣有了正面的回应。28-29节就跑到城里带了更多的人来。没有强迫他们,而是要他们来自己经历,然后自己做决定。


8. 3 0节:众 人 就 出 城 , 往 耶 稣 那 里 去 。


9. 39节:相信耶稣,是因为那妇人做见证。


10. 40节:耶稣在那里住了两天。这里有一个很重要的教导—没有宗教的禁忌:接纳他 们,和他们做朋友,进入他们的文化;和他们交流团契,吃他们的食物,一同生活,满足他们的需要。耶稣向他们表现出宽宏和良善。耶稣的态度是谦和的,友善的、面带笑容的。





你知道吗?当你对别人展现笑容时,他的头脑就会指示他打开他的心房(see brain picture on dopamine)。有一项调查说道,就算是没有布道会,只要教会里的弟兄姐妹常常脸带笑容,教会可以增长20%!告诉你自己:要学习常常微笑!


弟兄姐妹们,让我们来学习耶稣传福音的方式:

1. 锁定你生活中的撒玛利亚人

谁是你生活中的撒玛利亚人呢?是学生吗?是小孩子吗?是你公司里那些很会抽烟的salesman吗?是你的邻居吗?是你那时常看不起,你怎样都不会和她谈话的的朋友吗?是你得housemates吗?是你的家人吗?

耶稣在34-38节,特别35节要我们举目观看:这里举目观看有三方面的提醒

I. 举目观看,把你的注意力从你自己的需要上转移到别人的需要上。以弗所书6:8。Lift up your eye from your own needs.
II. 举目向神,仰望神,他要祝福你。Lift your eye to the Lord who want to bless you.
III. 举目看其他你身边的人,改变你对别人的看法和态度。Lift your eye to look at other people, change the way you look at other people.

马拉华蒂的异象是赢取“青年人”


18/35之窗 :18 到35岁的青年人

为什么呢?
第一:这一群人对福音最开放;

第二,这个年龄层施教会和国家未来的主人翁。当你赢得青年人,你就影响教会和国家的前景。

根据联合国的调查60%的人口是24岁以下的青年人,30%是10-24之间。
在马来西亚,每三个人里面就有一个是青年人(30%)就是那些在19-24之间的年轻人。当中75%的人是在25岁之前接受主耶稣为主的!徒2:17

不要认为年轻人对信仰没有兴趣。Douglas Coupland, 就是那位发明了“X时代”Generation X 的非信徒也公开承认他比其他的X时代更需要耶稣。

为什么是青年人呢?因为神要用他们: 约瑟17,大卫19,撒母耳,耶利米,提摩太19-24,
以斯帖,所罗门,何西亚,但以理,马利亚,约翰,耶稣等。近代有:John Calvin 加尔文 *Systematic Theology 27,William Booth *Salvation army 15, Charles Spurgeon 19, Jonathan Edwards 21, George Williams *YMCA 23, John Wesley 26, George Whitefield 20.



2. 进入他们的世界。Jesus stepped into their world.

就算你不喜欢他们,你会避开他们,还是学像耶稣进入他们的世界呢?

MTV: 一个青年人花2小时看电视,2小时听歌,2小时上网,在2小时看电视的时间里有半小时是花在Music Video上面。

3. 没有任何“歧视”,以爱来接纳他们。

No Discrimination but acceptance with the heart of love
那些戴耳环,染头发,讲话大大声,没有礼貌的年轻人,你会接纳他们,和他们做朋友吗?

或许你对年轻人的观念需要改变,根据调查,年轻人有以下这些特点:

1. 开放及适应能力很高 Open and Flexible
2. 容易受影响及改变 Impressionable:塑造性很大,当你改变他们转向耶稣时,他们会成为赢取灵魂的大军。59%的年轻人都有负担把耶稣介绍给身边的人。
3. 年轻人是理想主义的 Idealistic.
4/5对生命充满期待
4/5对前途是乐观的
3/4可以相信身边的人
2/3 看自己为“领袖”
4. 年轻人可以接受新的信仰。



4. 坐下来和他们交通/团契。Sit and Fellowship with them.

你说你要带领青年人到耶稣跟前,你有付出时间的代价来坐下来和他们喝茶交流吗?没有宗教性的,而是以建立友谊关系的方式来和她作朋友。Not religious but relational.

5. 听见及看见她的需要。Hear and See her needs

你有去听和去了解他们的需要吗?

你知道吗?根据调查,4/10 (43%)去教会的年轻人认为教会在关怀事工方面听见了他们的需要,但是
2/3 (34%)认为教会没有教导他们怎样成为更好的人。
2/3 (36%)说他们不懂的把听到的讲台信息运用在生活上
2/3 (38%)说教会没有帮助他们发现人生的目标
2/3 (36%)认为教会没有帮助他们发展有意义的人际关系,特别是他们和父母及家人之间的关系
3/4 (75%)的年轻人认为教会在牧养工作方面做的不好、不够卓越!



另外,大部分的年轻人对教会有以下的看法:

1.教会是呆板,不够弹性的 Church is inflexible
2.教会没有空间给他们:教会不懂的怎样来处理他们。Church has no room for them and don’t really know how to engage them.
3.教会不了解他们 The Church doesn’t understand them




6. 提供她“活水”Meet the need!

当有需要时,你会付出你的所有来去满足他的需要吗?

怎样才能赢取青年人呢?
1. 和他作朋友
2. 鼓励他们、激励他们
3. 把严肃和激进的基督信仰介绍给他
4. 帮助他们面对生活里面的难处:学业、男你关系、寻找工作等
5. 告诉他们一个更好的生活方式


7. 纠正并挑战她的错误观念和信仰。Correct and Challenge her believe/faith.

让他自己做决定

8. 要她自己承认自己的过去是不对的。Repentance from the past.

认罪悔改

9. 相信耶稣! Believe in Christ!

- 是因为他/他们自己经历神,并不是因为别人讲的,4:42
- 妇人邀请他们 〉他们自己来看、听并经历神 〉撒玛利亚人决定相信耶稣就是弥赛亚

10. 满有能力的新生命,为主做见证!Witness for Christ!

“Soul” in Hebrew means: people with great potential!




和"撒玛丽亚人"作朋友,你愿意吗?

1 November 2006

Hello! Everybody, I'm 1 year-old!

Here are a few photos taken with MaMa :-)





















like me? see more photos here

and this was me when I was 1 month old!


30 October 2006

Call to Glow

Dear SL,

Greetings!

You know what? Life in campus is full of grace and new learning not only for students but for me as well! If you are in a rat race of activity, God can get you out of it. I saw Him get Jasmine out of it.

Jasmine was a freshman when I first knew her, a student with good mind and a pleasing way, attending College on an academic scholarship. She began to do lot of challenging things. In the first place, Jasmine professed to be a Christian and wanted her friends to know Christ. She and Jean started a Bible study in the dorm. Then she gave tuition to the children in the neighbourhood with very minimal charges, another influence for Christ. Next were a Christmas night project, and several other worthwhile things in the Church. At the same time many of jasmine’s hours were going into academic study. It was a busy, stimulating life.

But as the weeks went on, things didn’t seem quite right. The Bible study group didn’t get very far. Friends didn’t seem too interested in Christ. In spite of her ability Jasmine found that studies were growing bigger than she was. A sizeable problem developed over time. Activities seemed to be bumping into one another. Things begun were hard to finish. On and on it went—very unsatisfying, the parts not adding up to the amount she had figured on. The worse thing is, fellow Christians think she is not glowing for Christ, even so, not good enough!! Was this the Christian life?

Now, a year late, Jasmine is a different girl. Did becoming a second year student make the difference? Possibly, a little. Did she have a “scholarship chat” with the Head of School? I don’t know.

I do know that Jasmine now has a serenity (like a sunshine, I’d say.J) which speaks to me of Christ. I know that her roommate and another girl are thinking seriously about Christianity, and that the Bible study is catching fire. Other Christians on campus will tell you that Jasmine has been a great encouragement to them too (she meets regularly with some of them to pray). Her time with God is a fruitful time now. Studies come second to it, but studies now seem to be the proper size (even though she studies more). I can see the beginning of a walk of faith, she is glowing for Christ!

By God grace, I have a chat with her and asked about the change. She said that during the semester break she surrendered all to Christ. Then, when His will was plain to her she followed Him.

It was about April when Jasmine began to understand His will for her time on campus. God was asking her to settle down to do a few things for Him, she concluded—to do them well. He directed her to do three things along with her regular quiet time and studies. In her particular campus situation they made wonderful sense.

  1. She should help lead the evangelistic Bible study, preparing thoroughly for it;
  2. She should pray regularly with the other Christians;
  3. She should have open spaces in her schedule for hanging-out with Non-Christian friends.

And that’s the way she began to live: a few things prayed for, done in His power and with His character and peace. This is the life of faith, a faith that is CALL TO GLOW!!

Dear SL, you can also glow like Jasmine. You can know God’s will for you in the campus. The details may be different from what Jasmine found, but the principles will be the same: surrendering to Him, asking Him to be the manager of “your” time, doing only as much as you can adequately pray for and do in the power of Holy Spirit.

To shine for Him and to glow for Him is a choice. Choose to follow our Lord Jesus Christ who works among the people. Not to glow within the four walls (Church, Christians houses etc.) but to glow in the community (that’s the campus!). Just like what Jesus has commanded in Matthew 5: 13-16

"You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.”

Be ready SL, gear to glow and glow with Him and for Him!

Take care and god bless!

Your brother,

Chu Kok

27 September 2006

Buying a House?

Thinking of buying a house? Here are some tips you might want to consider before making decision, read on!


HOUSING

Since the cost of housing is perhaps the greatest expense you’ll ever incur, you must study your personal situation, research the possibilities, and pray for the Lord’s guidance in order to make educated decisions about what’s right for you.

CONSIDER THE VARIABLES

One decision you’ll face in your search for housing is whether to buy or rent, which depends on how much you can afford to spend. And the only sure way to determine your spending limit is to live on a budget. With a budget, you know how much is coming in, how much is going out, and areas in which you can cut costs. This allows you to take the monthly amount you’d be paying on a certain house and try fitting that amount into your budget. It should be stated at the outset that buying a house without first checking your budget can place a tremendous financial burden on your family. The resulting stress can destroy your relationship with your spouse.

Of course, buying a house within your budget may require you to settle for a smaller house than you desire. But one thing’s for sure: The less you owe on your house, the faster you can pay it off. Then, you can take the money you were using to make payments and invest it for your children’s college or for retirement. The state of our nation’s economy is another reason to pay off your house early. The continuous buildup of federal debt must eventually produce severe economic consequences. The people with the greatest amount of debt at that time will be likely to suffer most as a result of these consequences.

Thus, we may conclude that living on a budget is the first step in buying a house. But even though your financial situation will be the major factor in determining what type of housing you need, there are other factors that must be considered. Prayerfully give these questions some thought.

1. Is your job secure enough for you to start making a mortgage payment? If not, consider renting instead of buying a house.

2. How long do you plan to stay in the area? If you know you will be staying in the community for at least five years, house ownership may be a good option.

3. What is the economy like in the area you are considering? Is the area growing substantially, and will the house appreciate? You don’t want to be stuck with a house that you can’t sell because of a poor economy.

4. What is the cost of living in the new area? If it is high, it will definitely affect your budget and may change the amount you can afford for housing.

After answering these questions, take the amount you can spend for housing and determine if house payments, including taxes and insurance, upkeep, and maintenance would be equal to or less than rental payments for a similar house in the same area. If they would be, then buying a house may be a wise choice.

RENTING A HOUSE

If you’ve decided that renting a house is a better option for you at this time, there are several things to consider. First, decide what type of dwelling you want to rent.You can rent a house, apartment, town house, mobile home, or even a room or suite in someone else’s house. The people in your church are often a good source of information about availability, location, and cost of rentals around the area.

BUYING A HOUSE

If you’ve decided that buying a house fits into your budget and is in your best interest long term, you can begin to look at the options available to you. Included in these options are new and used houses and condominiums.

First you will need to decide whether you want to purchase a new or used house. The advantages of purchasing a new house are that you can design the interior of your house to fit your individual needs. But new houses also have a big disadvantage. With few exceptions, those who bought a new house end up spending more than they planned to spend. Changes made, i.e. renovation, while the house is still new cost a lot of money, and it takes considerable time and mental effort to oversee the renovation of a new house.With used houses, there are several advantages. You know exactly what the house is going to cost and you can get more extras.

Used houses may come with curtains, curtain rods, towel racks, ceiling fans, lights in the closets, light bulbs, built-in cabinet, renovated kitchen/dining area, and occasionally appliances (air-conds, entertainment, fridge, washing machine etc). Be sure the contract states exactly which items will come with the house. One disadvantage of a used house is that it will likely have some wear and tear, which means repairs. The older the house is, the more repairs it’s likely to need. You should always check the heating and air conditioning, roof, water heater, kitchen cabinet, and appliances to see if they are in working condition. You may choose to hire a house inspection service to do this for you.

After the house has been checked, you can decide whether to purchase the house as is or back out of the deal.

Auction
This type of a house can be purchased at a relatively lower cost than other used houses. But you’ll need to take into consideration the extra funds for repairs, which will be in addition to the normal housing allocation. Be sure to have the house checked thoroughly, including foundations, roof, plumbing,and wiring, so you’ll know exactly what is wrong with the house before you buy it.


Condominiums
Another option is a condominium. You need to be aware of some additional costs involved above the purchase price, such as maintenance fees and club fees. Be aware that the maintenance fees are subject to change each year, and you have no control over them. This is not a bad option, especially if you don’t want to bother with yardwork.


PURCHASE OPTIONS

Now that you’ve decided what type of house you want to buy, you need to decide how to pay for it. In order to serve God in the very best way, the goal of all Christians should be to become debt free—including their homes. If you choose to borrow money to purchase the house, you should make it your goal to pay the house off as soon as possible.

Pay Cash
The best way to buy a house is to pay cash, provided you are financially able to do so. The idea of owning a house debt free is not a new one; in fact, it’s quite ancient. Most families used to own their houses, and those who didn’t were abnormal. Couples who couldn’t afford the large house they wanted followed a procedure that young couples need to follow today.

They would
1. Buy a smaller house;
2. Put a great deal of time and effort into it, thereby improving its value;
3. Sell it; and
4. Buy the next larger size house.

Eventually, these couples got their dream house without going into debt.

Remember: Patience is the key, as the bible says "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23)

10 September 2006

Called to be Teacher, Proud to be one...

“Why do you want to be a teacher?”
“Why are you a teacher?”
I remember many years ago when I first started as teacher (lecturer), one of my students asked those questions most people would like to know the answers too.

Is it because of the pay? Limited opportunities in the other sector? The half day spent in School/College? The long holidays? Job security? Or just “nowhere else to go”? Is it a calling or vocation?

Well, may be all of the above or may be not, I don’t quite sure when I started to be one…

But after so many years of being a “Teacher”, I am kind of loving to be a teacher—a great one! Know what? Of all professionals, teachers are the ones most intimately in touch with human lives and their development. Sound good and great huh?! Indeed, it is..

When I finished my STPM, my father suggested to me to enter Maktab Perguruan, I quickly brushed aside his suggestion and telling him I wish to enter university. Then he suggested Law, I declined again by putting Economics my first choice, wanting to end-up working in Bank Negara Malaysia (BNM).

At that time, things seemed to be working out well towards my goal. When I graduated from U and were start to working in a finance company, I received a call from BNM to go for an interview, only later to find out it was an interview for BNM prize for outstanding Economics’ students. I didn’t get the gold prize but were able to establish a rapport with BNM officials (most of them were seniors from the U).

After working for a few years, I decided to do my Master in Economics as that will add more weight to my resume for a BNM job. I started praying for a place where I can work and study part-time. The Lord then made special provision for me to enter TAR College where I managed to study even as I was teaching. After a while, I was shunted into education. But over the years I have seen God’s guiding hand and have learnt some valuable lessons being a teacher. I will call this “Teaching as a vocation”

It’s now my vocation and it is “called to be a teacher”!!

As Ruth Wong put it in her write-up entitled “Called to be a Teacher—A Christian and personal viewpoint.” A vocation

A vocation is not what I decide upon for my own ends. It is assigned by God.
God will adequately equip us for the work to which He has called us.
The Christian is called to walk in His footsteps.

So, to you, who are teaching or in any professions now, render service to your “earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. 6 Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. 7Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, 8because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. 9And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him. (Ephesians 6:5-8)

Called to be a teacher! Proud to be a Teacher! A Christian Teacher!!

3 September 2006

Called to be a Teacher


Good teacher is like an angel, this picture tells a thousand words . . .

Here is one good article on why people choose to be teacher.

Will follow up with a reflection on why I became a teacher, coming soon!


(CK in action. BB Study Camp, 5-6 Aug, Riviera Bay, Melaka)

Botak Geng II



Dear Botak Geng(s),

Guys, there is a good news for you here and all you need to know about why your head is getting botak :-) here.

By the way, my wife say botak can be sexy also if we look like these photos.

Ha! errrr, trying to comfort the worried husband but my head is not as round as these heads! how?

Urgently need your advise!!

Yours sincerely,

C K
your botak geng (coming soon)

p.s in case u can't visualise how I would look like in bald, here are some clues..see like father like daughter ma, so may be I'd look like this! :-)




(note: photos taken when Joyce was 1 month old)

30 August 2006

Botak Geng

How are you doing? I pray that you are still as young as you are and as you wish!!

You know what? I start losing my hair nowaday and moving toward the new era of my life: Mid-Life as some of my friend keep on reminding me: Mr Wee, you are entering the "mid-life crisis" stage!! (ERRR!!) (I can see some smiling faces out there, especially my "Botak Geng" who I'm joining them soon! HAHA!)

Oh! Dear! Don't remind me on that please!! I know, age is catching up on me very fast. But you know what, I still think there are a lot thing that I have not finish, complete and ....many-many work to do before I call it a day! Or put it this way, God has not finish with me yet!

So, with that in mind, althought the next time you see me, I may look "more mature" (he! he!) but you know what? my student always says to me: Sir, you are young at heart!! Ok, ok...you guys must think that I'm trying to comfort myself with all the saying....fine, ok-lah, I am 37 years old, 3 more years to go before entering 40!!

As I was wondering what to do with my "head" and my "hair", I found this song and flash (as attached) that remind me of my dream and remind me of my ultimate goal and purpose of life as written in the bible

Philippians 3 "Pressing on Toward the Goal "

12Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. 15All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. 16Only let us live up to what we have already attained. 17Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you. 18For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. 19Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things. 20But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, 21who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

12 这 不 是 说 我 已 经 得 着 了 , 已 经 完 全 了 ; 我 乃 是 竭 力 追 求 , 或 者 可 以 得 着 基 督 耶 稣 所 以 得 着 我 的 ( 或 作 : 所 要 我 得 的 ) 。13 弟 兄 们 , 我 不 是 以 为 自 己 已 经 得 着 了 ; 我 只 有 一 件 事 , 就 是 忘 记 背 後 , 努 力 面 前 的 ,14 向 着 标 竿 直 跑 , 要 得 神 在 基 督 耶 稣 里 从 上 面 召 我 来 得 的 奖 赏 。15 所 以 我 们 中 间 , 凡 是 完 全 人 总 要 存 这 样 的 心 ; 若 在 甚 麽 事 上 存 别 样 的 心 , 神 也 必 以 此 指 示 你 们 。16 然 而 , 我 们 到 了 甚 麽 地 步 , 就 当 照 着 甚 麽 地 步 行 。17 弟 兄 们 , 你 们 要 一 同 效 法 我 , 也 当 留 意 看 那 些 照 我 们 榜 样 行 的 人 。18 因 为 有 许 多 人 行 事 是 基 督 十 字 架 的 仇 敌 。 我 屡 次 告 诉 你 们 , 现 在 又 流 泪 的 告 诉 你 们 :19 他 们 的 结 局 就 是 沉 沦 ; 他 们 的 神 就 是 自 己 的 肚 腹 。 他 们 以 自 己 的 羞 辱 为 荣 耀 , 专 以 地 上 的 事 为 念 。20 我 们 却 是 天 上 的 国 民 , 并 且 等 候 救 主 , 就 是 主 耶 稣 基 督 从 天 上 降 临 。21 他 要 按 着 那 能 叫 万 有 归 服 自 己 的 大 能 , 将 我 们 这 卑 贱 的 身 体 改 变 形 状 , 和 他 自 己 荣 耀 的 身 体 相 似 。

So, lets continue to dream and to dream for God!! And to pressing toward the Goal of our Life: to win the prize for which God has called us heavenward in Christ Jesus.

I may have gave-up on my hairs, but I never give up on my life and my "DREAM" for Him!! You too shouldn't stop dreaming and continue to do BIG things for Him!!

Click here for the flash. Listen to it a few time, you will see and hear something, especially those of you who are like me, entering mid-life and start losing hairs!! Welcome to the "Botak Geng"!! Ha HA! :-)

(first time download may be slow, after running the first time, it'll become smooth then, enjoy!)

为主来梦想

相片里 儿时的模样
记录着年少的时光 曾经在你我的心中
要登上月亮 要飞越太平洋

年后 我们都成长
告别了清涩和迷惘 曾经在你我的心中
编织的梦想是否已遗忘

人生的理想是 为主发光 拭去了泪水使我们更坚强
路依然漫长 别失去了盼望 痛苦时记得有主在你身旁

为主来梦想 为主来发光 虽然有挫折 但我不用沮丧
主是我力量 主指引方向我们的日子有梦想 有灿烂的阳光

Enjoy the Mid-life!!

(Your Botak Geng :-)

p/s sent this flash to a very good fren and decided it should benefit more people, therefore it's here for you, enjoy the song!

23 August 2006

One of the best comment i've ever read . .

see here and enjoy the article ...

Kali ini mesti kasi dia "kaw-kaw" :-)